Don't Let Your Competition Derail You
Don't Let Your Competition Derail You: Business Advice for Lash Artists
When I launched Lash Affair in 2014, the lash extension industry was already competitive, and it's only gotten more crowded since. New lash brands, new training programs, new artists entering the market every week. I've watched talented people pour their energy into obsessing over what their competitors are doing instead of focusing on building something great themselves. And I've been there too. So here's what I've learned about staying focused in a competitive industry. The best defense against competition is a well-run business -- if you're still setting up your foundations, our lash business start-up guide covers everything from training through pricing and client acquisition.
Comparison Is the Fastest Way to Lose Yourself
In the early days of Lash Affair, I made the mistake of checking every competitor's Instagram, monitoring their prices, and worrying every time someone launched a product that overlapped with ours. It was exhausting and unproductive. Every hour I spent analyzing competitors was an hour I wasn't spending on improving my own products, training my artists better, or connecting with my customers.
The lash industry is big enough for all of us. A client who loves one brand of adhesive isn't necessarily a lost customer for another brand, they may use different products for different applications. An artist who trains with one program may take advanced courses with another. Competition isn't zero-sum in this industry, and treating it that way will burn you out.
What to Focus on Instead of Your Competitors
Here's a simple reframe: instead of asking "what is my competitor doing?", ask "what does my ideal client need that no one is delivering well yet?" That question leads to innovation. The other question leads to imitation.
Some practical redirects that have helped me:
- Double down on your differentiator. What do you do better than anyone else? For us, it's formulating adhesives built around real artist feedback, and creating education that's grounded in decades of practical experience. Lean into whatever makes you genuinely different.
- Invest in your craft. The artists who rise above the noise are the ones who keep learning. Techniques evolve, products improve, client preferences shift. Stay ahead of that curve.
- Build client relationships that outlast trends. Clients don't just buy lashes, they buy the experience, the trust, and the relationship. A client who trusts you isn't going to leave because a competitor ran a sale.
- Create content that educates and inspires. Whether it's Instagram Reels, blog posts, or in-person workshops, putting valuable information into the world builds authority that outlasts any marketing campaign.
When Competition Gets Personal or Messy
Sometimes competition in the lash industry doesn't stay professional. People copy your language, your branding, even your exact product descriptions. I've had it happen to Lash Affair. Here's what I've learned: respond proportionally.
For minor stuff like similar marketing language? Let it go. Your energy is worth more than that battle. For genuine intellectual property issues, consult an attorney. But most of the time, the best response to imitation is acceleration, focus on what you're building next rather than what they copied from you.
Drama in the beauty industry is real, and social media amplifies it. My advice: don't participate. You don't have to engage with every critique or subtweet. Choose your battles carefully, respond professionally when it genuinely matters, and let your work speak for itself over time.
Building a Business That Can Weather Competition
The artists and brands I've watched succeed long-term share a common trait: they're obsessively focused on their own customers rather than their competitors. They ask their clients what they need, listen to feedback, fix what's broken, and keep improving.
If you're building a lash business, start with the fundamentals: learn your craft deeply, use quality lashes and adhesives, deliver a consistent client experience, and get properly trained. Those basics, done well and consistently, are more defensible than any competitive tactic.
Competition is healthy. It pushes you to be better. But the moment you start letting it derail you, redirect your attention to what you can control: your skills, your products, your clients, your reputation. That's where the real work, and the real reward, lives.
About the Author
Jenelle Paris is the founder of Lash Affair and has been a working lash artist since 2009. She founded Lash Affair in 2014 and has trained thousands of lash professionals worldwide through her education programs and product lines.
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